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Discover the 9 Love-Links® elements of your person* that can help you better “Love and Be Loved”. 

9 Person Elements ICON1 ♡ Design

2 ♡ Needs

3 ♡ Relationships

4 ♡ Belonging

5 ♡ Worth

6 ♡ Competence

7 ♡ Vocation

8 ♡ Motivation

9 ♡ Fit

Each of your 9 person* elements (who you really are) is linked to a basic TRUTH, GOAL, and LIE about “loving and being loved”.

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*Who is your “person”?

  • Genuine, unconditional love is holistic, and impacts your entire being - all 9 elements of your "person"
  • Each of your 9 "person" elements links directly to how you love others (know them) and allow yourself to be loved (be known by them).
  • Your “person” is made of three (3) "selves" - your behavioral-self (your soma, or body - row one), your developmental-self (your psyche, or soul - row two), and your life-motivational-self (your pneuma, or spirit - row three). Your three "selves" work holistically together to make the "person" you have been, are, and want to become. 
  • Since each “self” contains 3 of your "person" elements, a balanced, holistic view of love has 9 TRUTHS, 9 GOALS, and 9 LIES about your "person" that can be 1) discovered, 2) learned, 3) perfected, and 4) applied in better “loving and being loved”.
  • Each is linked intentionally - or unintentionally - to love (your choice).
  • Achieve the 9 GOALS to embrace (believe) the 9 TRUTHS, and reject the 9 LIES.
  • The better you know your "selves", and each of their 9 elements of your "person", the better you can apply love to your life and gain the benefits of healthy relationships, resolved conflicts, and effective communication.  (The site,, shares a formula to help you achieve these for your life.)

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